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Are you a mother? or a lover?  Hidden Romance killers that you need to know.. One of the biggest mistakes that women can make to drain the romance, desire, and fun out of their relationship is to mother their man and treat him like a child. It is the fundamental reason that men end up resenting and eventually rebelling against women, and a sure fire way to deaden a happy love life. As women, we are programmed to nurture and feel responsible for the care and needs of others. It’s somewhat in our DNA to takeover when things fall apart or to anticipate a problem and try to prevent what looks like a “hazard to our harmony”. The dilemma is that the more you treat your man like a boy, the more he will act like one and it will drive you both crazy. Learn the symptoms and solutions to prevent this hidden romance killer from taking over your relationship and enjoy creating love that lasts. Symptoms: -        Taking over: Thinking you are ...

Keep Calm...and Carry On... This is what one of my junior architects reply to me whenever I tell him to calm down when he gets frustrated and impatient with work..  Being Calm and Patient are part of the essential keys to become a successful Architect..  Let me share my personal favorites of Keep Calm Quotes.. We all know anger can make a person ugly.. so.. This one works for me EVERY TIME!!!!  and then there's.. the previous quote will not be complete without.. and also.. okay.. the buy shoes one is a personal thing for me... I LOVE SHOES!!! They make me happy!! and then there's.. this goes with keeping yourself beautiful..(not in general but in my honest opinion of course..) then there's one of my biggest secrets to keeping myself calm..also helps when I design..   and there's one thing that even hypertension doctors agree and advise..  Then I found some that works for Chief...one goes.. LOL!! and for the inspiring ones...

Ciao Bellas!  Let me share this list I read from  Purpose Fairy  with you. This is to help keep the positive life and is worth reading. 1. Give up your need to always be right  There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big? 2. Give up your need for control Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be j...